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She Said ‘Never’… Until God Said ‘Now’ | A Long Pursuit of Love

Judith & Kingsley Episode 19

What happens when love takes the long way home? This episode uncovers the incredible journey of Ben and Rafia — a couple who spent over a decade orbiting each other, convinced they were never meant to be… until God revealed a different ending.

From the moment Ben boldly said, “I want to date you,” Rafia shut it down with a full “God forbid!” 💀 She was sure this man was not her husband. But life has a way of humbling us — relationships come and go, lessons shape us, and slowly the story we swore could never be… becomes the one we were destined for.

In this heartfelt conversation, they open up about the years in between — the heartbreaks, the growth, the moments that reset their expectations of love. And how one day, after walking away from each other more than once, they finally stopped fighting what was always meant to be.

Now married and grateful, they reflect on the beauty of God’s timing: the way He restores, redirects, and reveals purpose when we least expect it.


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